Saturday, March 10, 2007

I hate Love??

Have u ever been in love?
Horrible, isnt it.
It makes u vulnerable, it opens up your chest and it opens up ur heart and it means someone can get inside u and mess u up.
You build up all these defences. You build up this armor for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life.
You give them a piece of you, they don’t ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you or smile at you and then your life isnt your own anymore.
Love takes hostages, it gets inside you. It eats you up and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a single phrase like “its over” or “I don’t love you anymore” turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart and gut.
How picturesque.
It hurts. Not just in the imagination, not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.
Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love.
I hate love.

---- Niel Gaiman


Anonymous said...

Still Love is most beutiful thing U can have in ur life .. I had it .. Somebody said the same to me .. Still "I consider that time be the best in my life".

Try to view the things without turning them upside down. dont find the best/ideal/right .. Whatever u have is the best is the right one .. Its ur love.

Deepshikha said...

Hi Anonymous
I am not judging anyone to be 'best/ideal/right'.. Its just that I am saying 'love' is a mighty feeling -- It has huge potential -- It could make and break, it can bring both, the best and thw worst out of you... That is what I am talking about. And not analysing the person one is in love with to be the "best / ideal / right" one.. To add, I also think and accept that there is no such thing as 'perfect' and 'perfection' in any form is boring.

Anonymous said...

how do you perfection is boring ?

Deepshikha said...

I could not understand the question...

Anonymous said...

how do you know that perfection is boring ?

Pothi Padh Padh Kar Jag Mua, Pandit Bhayo Na Koye
Dhai Aakhar Prem Ke, Jo Padhe so Pandit Hoye

Nishant said...

Love makes your life live. Thats all I know.
Most importantly, love yourself. And love yourself for not what you have, but for what you are.
When someone says, I hate you and ditched your feelings, emotions, love, care... Don't get upset becoz' you were true. You were true to yourself. You loved that person. You lived with that person. So, don't get upset on the moments you have lived. Always remember, life is all about the moments that take your breath away.
In such situations, people feel blue becoz' their dreams have broken apart. All I can say is, Dream Again and don't just dream... Live your dream.
When time passes, we consider ourselves more mature in relationships. Its good, but only let your mind gets mature. Always keep child's heart alive.
I have coined up many things, but there is only one thing to take, Live. If you want love, then love yourself. If you want this world to be happy, then keep yourself happy.